Sunday, November 15, 2009

Irony of Love

Is there really a happy ending? Watching different movies and seeing the ending either a happy one or tragic, even in real life it happens. I was watching TV series titled Smallville, Clark and Lana both are in love and yet because of fear to protect Lana, Clark hides what he really feels and push Lana away while on the other hand Lana still hold on because of her love for Clark but I was struck by Clark mother’s question, “did you broke up with her because you want to protect her or because you think she’s not the one?” question left unanswered by Clark, why do we need to hide from what we feel? Why are we afraid to take the risk of loving someone? Is sacrificing the right thing to do at the expense of hurting the one we love only to find in the end that we made the wrong decision because we still love the person that we let go. Love can make or break us, once we get heart broken, we made irrational decision, decision that left us regretting and left us seeking for peace of mind. Definitely, maybe; a movie which gives us a lesson of taking the risk to find the One love, but think about it if William did not took the risk of falling in love all over again he might not found the love of his life, but is risking enough for us to have happy ending? Chasing the love of our life, Made of Honor almost the same message of the movie definitely, maybe but the quirk of fate of this movie is that Tom chase Hannah after he realize that all the time he was with other women it is Hannah that he is in love with, why do we chase love after being blind of what we feel from the start, what if it’s too late to chase love only to find out that it is already been restless of waiting. Having a happy ending and yet there was not enough time and unfortunately we lose the one we love in a second, Nights in Rodanthe give a picture of a Love that was found in pain, loneliness and betrayal by past love, that in the midst of all the gloominess getting heart broken there still the one who will swept you off your feet, however the chance given to have happy ending seems to be a stolen moment of happiness. We keep on searching for the one true love in our life just to know that we misread wrong gesture and end up getting hurt from our own mistake, the movie He is just that not into you, give us a lesson that the one can never be seek, can never be waited but it will come along at the right time and in the right place, this movie tells us that there is the one who is meant for us to be with like the movie Serendipity, Lake House, The Notebook, that no matter what the character in the movie had been through they still end up together, they did get there happy ending. It is true that Love is a dangerous game to be played once you got burn it will be hard to believe that there is a happy ending in love; we become afraid to feel the beat of our heart and deny the fact that our hearts needs to beat again, feel alone and everything that surround us is blue, is there hope along the way or another maze of fate that we need to take the course in order for us to have happy ending.

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